10 Books That Sit on My Shelf: A Reading List from a Black Trauma Therapist in Seattle
As a therapist, the conversation of latest readings is never far from my personal and professional spaces. If you are curious what books a therapist actually reads when not busy taking notes, perhaps this blog post may be for you.
Why a Therapist's Bookshelf Matters
People are sometimes surprised to learn that therapists read for fun. Like, actual for-fun reading, not just clinical journals and diagnostic manuals (though yes, I have my fair share of those too, as you will soon see). But here's the truth: the books I return to again and again shape how I show up in the therapy room. They inform how I think about healing, identity, community, and what it means to be a whole person.
Being a Black therapist in Seattle means I often get to be someone's first experience of feeling truly seen in a therapy space. That's not a small thing to me. A lot of what helps me hold that space with care comes from books — some clinical others just really good storytelling.
My 10 Book Recommendations
So, in the spirit of sharing a little piece of my world with you, here are 10 books I recommend to just about anyone who asks. These books are in no particular order and I am not being paid to endorse them:
Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay C. Gibson
What My Bones Know: A Memoir of Healing from Complex Trauma by Stephanie Foo
A Few Final Thoughts
If any of these books end up on your own nightstand, I'd genuinely love to hear what you think of them. Books have a unique way of opening doors that therapy sometimes opens too.
And if you're looking for an EMDR trained Black therapist in Seattle who brings that same anti-racist curiosity, warmth, and love of a good story into the therapy room, I'd love to connect. Healing doesn't have to be heavy all the time. Sometimes it starts with a good book and an even better conversation.
Next on the reading list is Honor Thy Mother:How to Grieve, Heal, and Make Peace with Your Mother Wounds by Dr. Sarita Lyons